Jesus said to his disciples, "As the
Father has loved me, so I have loved you; abide in my love...This is my
commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you...And I appointed
you to go and bear fruit, fruit that will last... [John 15:9, 12, 16b] NINE YEARS AGO, that is, in 2015, I
wrote the following: How intrusive is this [Gospel] message against the backdrop
of mistrust, hatred of "the other," and the seemingly endless
and rampant violence across the world and in our local communities? Them
vs Us, You vs Me, This is Mine, You can’t do/have/be…is as
ancient as Caine and Abel and never tires of repeating. As the reading from
Acts tells us, the circumcised believers...were astounded that
the Holy Spirit was given even to the Gentiles. Peter was
clear that the water of baptism cannot be withheld from those who are different
because they have received the Holy Spirit just as we have... And
Jesus was even more clear: This is my commandment, that you love one
another as I have loved you. I see no room for negotiation
here. Yet we continue with judgment that is meant only to be God’s when
the prevailing thought is those people are doing terrible
things so how can Jesus possibly expect us to love them?
Well, what we think he expects is irrelevant, he commands it.
IF we believe in Jesus, then we must bear the fruit of God's love to all people,
in all places, and everywhere. NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE
THINKS ABOUT “THEM,” EVERYONE IS INCLUDED IN HIS COMMANDMENT! And yes, I am
shouting!
Today I find
it more than disheartening to realize that things, nine years later, are now
exponentially worse on so many levels especially in issues of race, religion, sexual
orientation, gender identity, and politics ~ talk about lions and tigers and
bears, oh my! ~ not to mention dragons and snakes and skunks. Yet there are
some seeds of hope grounded in love, amidst the anger, frustration, and
despair, that are rising up, beginning to flower, and showing great potential
to bear sweet and sustaining fruit for sharing. I have to stop often to
remember that Jesus didn't require us to "like" anyone, only love them.
We are to seek not only Jesus but ourselves in another. "Oh, really,"
you say, "nothing of Jesus or me is found in THAT person." Look
harder and listen more closely. What you and I think and feel ~ and say? ~
about those we label as them may very well be what they think
and feel and say about us. We are likely to uncomfortably discover
that we are not so very different from them after
all. Maybe, if we go beyond the “Golden Rule” to employ the “Platinum Rule”
those others might be slightly easier to love. What is the platinum rule? “Do
unto others as they would have you do unto
them.” If I only do what I want done for me how is that helpful to another? For
example, if I invite you to dinner and fill the table with all my favorite
foods without asking if you have preferences or allergies or serious dislikes,
who is more comfortable? Is not Love for another to go beyond our wants and
wishes?
That said, the stark truth must be
acknowledged: Our loving of them does not require ~ nor will it regularly
result in ~ reciprocation. The dangers, fears, and tensions of the world will
not suddenly evaporate because we are more intentionally loving
people. Yes, there is evil intent in this world that no amount of love or
understanding will resolve. But judgment belongs to God. As the psalmist
says: In righteousness shall he judge the world and the peoples with
equity. [Ps 98:10]
As we listen, hear, and remember the Gospel
message together, we can work as a team to learn and practice how to love,
through the experience of intentional relationship. After all, even in
a loving family, not everyone is happy with everyone all the time, but we work
through it because of the connections we want to maintain. And sometimes we
have to let go of the things we don’t like about another in order to sustain
the relationship.
Of course, we are not called to pursue
“relationships” with everyone, especially with those who intend harm. We are,
however, to reconcile our first thoughts and actions through the lens of
Christ’s love. It’s hard and often un-rewarding work in this life. Yet, we are
promised much more than a rose garden for following Christ’s commandment. This
life is short though it can feel endless when we encounter very demanding,
difficult, and desperate days ~ and people. Feeling supported in the trials of
faith by the presence of Christ and the Holy Spirit, and in community, we can
come to believe that working to act in, through, and by love ~ first, last, and
always ~ as best we can in this mortal time, is always personal, whether
directed outwardly or inwardly.
LET US, GOD’S PEOPLE, PRAY
Leader: ~ Christ Jesus, Born of God and
Woman, as You chose us to be bearers of the fruit of Your eternal
love, lift us from the shadows of doubt. Awaken our souls to follow Your
Commandments to love one another and to fully abide in You as You abide in us.
Oh
Lord of Mercy and Faithfulness
RESPONSE:
Guide us to offer Love first, last, and always
~ Christ Jesus, Born of God and Woman, grant us such
consciousness of our gifts from the Spirit, that we hold ourselves and those
who govern accountable, throughout this Planet, this Country, and this
Community; acting always to uphold Your standards of righteousness and equity,
on behalf of all people everywhere. We pray
especially for: add your own petitions
Oh
Lord of Mercy and Faithfulness
Guide
us to offer Love first, last, and always
~ Christ Jesus, Born of God and Woman, lovingly embrace
with healing all who are ill in body, mind, or soul, and all who give them love
and care. We now join our hearts to pray for those in need… add
your own petitions
Oh
Lord of Mercy and Faithfulness
Guide
us to offer Love first, last, and always
~ Christ Jesus, Born of God and Woman, with trumpets and
the sound of the horn You shout with joy, as those who have risen above this
earthly plain are welcomed to the everlasting peace of new life in You. We
pray especially for… add your own petitions
Oh
Lord of Mercy and Faithfulness
Guide
us to offer Love first, last, and always
~ Christ Jesus, Born of God and Woman, we pause in
this moment to offer You our other heartfelt thanksgivings, intercessions,
petitions, and memorials… add your own petitions
Oh
Lord of Mercy and Faithfulness
Guide
us to offer Love first, last, and always
~ Christ Jesus, Born of God and Woman, we offer special thanksgivings for those among
us who are anointed to teach and lead us in Your Word and Ways. Grant them
continual renewal of purpose and endless replenishment of vim and vigor. We
pray especially for: add your own petitions
Oh
Lord of Mercy and Faithfulness
Guide
us to offer Love first, last, and always
The Celebrant adds: Almighty and Ever-Loving God,
infuse us with the inner peace and fortitude to let the actions of our
lives be the instruments of rejoicing playing new songs of faith and love, each
and every day. We ask through Jesus, our Loving Redeemer; and the Holy Spirit,
Your Truth; who together with You, are One God, now and forever. Amen.