Meditation Moments: Tacking or Jibing?

photo by Christina Brennan Lee
at Broad Bay, NZ

She stood in the storm 

and when the wind 

did not blow her way, 

she adjusted her sails.

                            Elizabeth Edwards* [1949-2010]

          It's so easy and comfortably trite to say "When life hands you lemons, make lemonade." It's a kindly thought and there's a limited amount of folksy wisdom in it. But, Lord of the Wind and Sea of Life, sometimes life hands out orchards of difficulty, grief, and anguish. Yet even in the midst of all of that there are happy moments, satisfying times, there is ordinary. 
          It's no use comparing my stuff with anyone else's, mine is always more important to me even though I recognize and empathize with the trials and tragedies of others. And I'm certain that I'm entitled to my fair share of wails, whines, and whimpers, for a time. But when it is time to move forward, please do not let me stall, becalmed by procrastination or inertia. Point me in the right direction, Lord, the one that leads to You; and, if I cannot sail through my life without stormy seas or the occasional eddy throwing me off course, help me then to adjust my sails for the right wind to carry me through.  amen. 


*Elizabeth Edwards, an American Attorney, Health Care Activist, and best-selling author was married to John Edwards, a US Senator with unsuccessful campaigns for US Vice-President and later President. Ms. Edwards dealt well publicly with her husband's rise to prominence and notoriety after a much publicized affair that resulted in an illegitimate child at the time Elizabeth was also coping with breast cancer that ultimately ended her life.





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Prayers of the People: Going to Seed, 5th Sunday after Pentecost '17 Yr A

For Sunday, July 13, 2014, Readings: Gen 25: 19-34; Ps 119:105-112; Romans 8:1-11; Mt 13:1-9, 18-23

Van Gogh's The Sower

You are in the Spirit, 

since the Spirit of God 

dwells in you.  

                                       [Romans 8:9]

         This week we have twins who fight, parents who play favorites, and the Master Gardener at work.  

        Not much new these days in the dynamics of family but in terms of our spiritual growth, it's all Good News. The seeds are already planted within us, all we need to do is till, tend, water, feed, and weed, though it's not always quite so simple. Farming is tough work, a 24/7 job on and in the ground.  Good weather and hard work yields a good crop. Bad weather and harder work and a failed crop. Try, try again to clear the rocks, cut back the thorns and clean up the path... if we want it, we've got it. And so it grows. 

LET US, GOD’S PEOPLE, PRAY

Leader:     ~ Jesus, Sower of Life, You call us each and together to walk in the ways of the Spirit, and to receive, understand, and live into the Word of God. Let the seeds You have given us find good soil in our hearts and take deep root within us.

                              Lord of Mercy, Your Word lights our path

RESPONSE:   May the Spirit of God dwell within us

~ Jesus, Sower of Life, rekindle the fire of grace and goodness in the hearts of the leaders of this world, our nation, and our community. Divert them from the way of thorns into the fertile ground of fairness, honor, and virtue.  We pray especially for: add your own petitions

                        Lord of Mercy, Your Word lights our path

                       May the Spirit of God dwell within us

~ Jesus, Sower of Life, light the way to healing for those among us struggling with illness in body, mind, or heart, and ease the burden of those who care for them. We pray especially for: add your own petitions

                       Lord of Mercy, Your Word lights our path

                       May the Spirit of God dwell within us

~ Jesus, Sower of Life, grant us the wisdom to carry the right comfort to those who grieve, as we, together, commend to Your care, those who have entered into immortal life in You.  We pray especially for: add your own petitions

                       Lord of Mercy, Your Word lights our path

                       May the Spirit of God dwell within us

~ Jesus, Sower of Life, we pause in this moment to offer You our other heartfelt intentions and petitions, silently or aloud………

                       Lord of Mercy, Your Word lights our path

                       May the Spirit of God dwell within us

~ Jesus, Sower of Life, grant a grower’s vitality to those chosen and anointed as the tillers of God’s verdant fields. Guide them as they encourage spiritual growth in ourselves and in community. We pray especially for: add your own petitions

                       Lord of Mercy, Your Word lights our path

                       May the Spirit of God dwell within us

The Celebrant adds:  O God of Abraham and Sarah, Isaac and Rebekah, You have given us the twin gifts of good soil and good seeds planted in our fertile hearts. Grant us the willingness to tend and weed, and to nurture Your Presence within us. We ask this through Jesus, our Sower, and the Spirit, our Enricher, who live and thrive with You, One God, now and forever. Amen.

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Meditation Moments: Like a Spare Tire

Life is not the way 

it's supposed to be. 

It's the way it is. 

The way you deal with it
is what makes the difference.

                                  ~ Virginia Satir* [1918-1966]




                 How many times, after something awful has happened, have I heard - and said - "it's just not fair; that shouldn't have happened; it's not the way it's supposed to be..." But yet I can't remember ever saying that when something spectacularly good has happened. How IS life supposed to be?  We are born through no fault of our own, we grow up, go to school, work, marriage or not, divorce or not, kids (or not)...and all the other stuff that happens good or...until...
                 So, God of All That's Supposed to Be, I don't really believe in "Fate," I believe in "Stuff Happens," and that some days, months, weeks, years, are better than others. I know what to do in the good times, but I need Your help in the not-so-wonderful moments. I want to be able to quickly accept the reality of a moment, however crazy, difficult, or tragic, and find a practical way forward - to have a sort of spare tire plan. I've already had a bit of life experience so maybe I can review my initial awareness of when the blowouts hit and think about other ways I might have - or not - reacted. With my car, having a spare tire gives me a first step in measured response rather than all disorganized reaction.
                I can't possibly predict or plan for every eventuality but with Your help, and a lot of deep breathing, I'll have a spare tire attitude ready for almost anything, and someOne to lean on all the way.  amen.


*Virginia Satir was an American author and psychotherapist specializing in family therapy. Her role play formats in family reconstruction and family sculpting among other aspects of her work have been widely used and she received many honors within her profession.  She often used meditation and poetry in her written work and lectures. The following, one of her best known pieces, was written in response to angry teen-aged girl but is certainly useful for us all:

I am me
In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me
Everything that comes out of me is authentically me
Because I alone chose it – I own everything about me
My body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions,
Whether they be to others or to myself – I own my fantasies,
My dreams, my hopes, my fears – I own all my triumphs and
Successes, all my failures and mistakes Because I own all of
Me, I can become intimately acquainted with me – by so doing
I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts – I know
There are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other
Aspects that I do not know – but as long as I am
Friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously
And hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles
And for ways to find out more about me – However I
Look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever
I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically
Me – If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought
And felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is
Unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that
Which I discarded – I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do
I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be
Productive to make sense and order out of the world of
People and things outside of me – I own me, and
therefore I can engineer me – I am me and
I AM OKAY

                          

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Meditation Moments: Open Secret

I do not fear death, in view of the fact that I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered from the slightest inconvenience of it.
 ~ Samuel Clemens/Mark Twain* [1835-1910]


                 
            Of course, the inconvenience, aka grief, is for those who are still earthbound, feeling lost, and sometimes not a little shell-shocked. Whatever normal was, it is now really gone. In addition to the enormity of the change of emotional thought now required, there's all the bureaucracy - the paperwork, the notifications, the legalities, the dreadfully ill-timed inconvenience. And mostly because many of us fear the inevitable.  
                   Death is an open-secret usually discussed in hushed tones and quickly diverted to something else. None of us really want to die and we sure don't want to talk about it.  But we do need to think about doing a little preparation for the eventual, the definite, the - yeah, THAT. 
                   Whether or not I believe in eternity with Jesus at the end of life is - for some purposes - irrelevant and another sort of preparation to think about. But what is uppermost in my heart is how do I help those who will be left to do all the work in the midst of missing me (they'd better miss me!)? 
                    Lead me, God of the Inevitables, sooner into the acceptance that my life will end at some point. Let me live into the understanding that all will be well for me and better for my family if I do the planning, the will, living will/advanced directive, what kind of memorial or service, and whatever other arrangements for things to go as I'd like. And guide me to have the conversations with them to explain it on a sunny day when all is well and everyone is healthy. Perhaps if I give it the "matter-of-fact" treatment, we can then move through the cloudy parts quickly and move back into the other reason we got together - just to be together because we can, now. By then, they'll have all they need to do the necessary stuff more easily and they can just remember the many happy nows we have had. And I can go easily on my way into eternity without the slightest inconvenience. amen.



*Samuel Clemens, with his pen name of Mark Twain, was an American author and humorist most famous for his The Adventures of Tom Sawyer and The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn. He was known as the greatest American humorist of his day leaving a treasure trove of great quotes and he has been called the Father of American literature.











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A Moment: We the People, 2021 Update ~ Independence, Interdependence, and Greatness

            I love the country of my birth. We are part of each other. I have traveled to 42 of our 50 states and I have lived in 10 of them. We are more than New York City, Miami, Chicago, San Francisco - those mega-cities that most visitors "know" after a few days on tour and therefore assume they "know" the US. As if London is representative of all of the United Kingdom, Paris is all that is France, or Hong Kong explains China. We are more than our crime statistics, deadly mass shootings, and the extreme disparities between wealth and poverty.

         We the People of the United States are mostly in small towns and rural areas with a considerable population of folks who rarely travel far from where they were born. As in other places, our coastal cultures are different from the interior ways of life, the mountain life is different from that on the big lakes or the prairies, and do not confuse the Southwest with the Upper Peninsula, or a Yankee with a Hoosier or a Buckeye. As in many countries our accents, our slang, and our time zones change many times across our 3,000 mile (4800 km) width, from north to south, and even inside of every state. 

         In these days the political divide is more polarized than ever and we have already seen dangerous consequences resulting from some of the unconscionable rhetoric that is pouring out. I sincerely hope and pray that somehow wisdom and common sense grows beyond broadcast soundbites, unsustainable and extreme political rhetoric, manipulative self-interested opinion disguised as journalism, and the falsity of nationalism, isolationism, and heinous white supremacy, all of which, by ourselves and others across the world, have led to devastating global wars in the past. Ironically, our own Declaration of Independence calls out King George III in the 18th century for a variety of actions that we ourselves, via our elected representatives nationally and locally, have been party to, here and elsewhere in the world, over at least the last generation such as:  

[The King] has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands. [emphasis mine]

He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.
He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation
For Quartering large bodies of armed troops among us
For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States
For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world... and so on.

       I do often wonder how many "true" and "natural" citizens of this country, especially those elected to government or aspire to be, have actually read the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution whose principles are often bandied about inaccurately?

       I also know it has always been this way, from our beginnings as restive revolutionaries fighting for our Independence, to our Civil War, to Civil Disobedience in the 1960s, to the us and them of now. We have had hateful debates and diatribes and we have come together in tragedy and triumph. As with any family, we have relatives we don't like, don't speak to, and disagree with about everything. Some of it will eventually be resolved and some of it will not. But, we are family and we do go out of our way to help each other in a crisis whether it's a horrific act of violence or a monster natural disaster, even if we walk away again in a difference of opinion. 

        Again, I love the country of my birth. I don't always like us or what we do here and around the world, but as with any country on earth, We the People are not the politicians, the political parties, the headlines, all the bad news, or all the good. We are individuals, who by accident of birth or decision, live here with daily lives of quiet inspiration and desperation and everything in between. We are Americans, for better, for worse, forever, even if we leave. While I am certain that I would love any land of my birth, I just happened to be born in this one.  Here is what some have said about the freedom we proclaim as the Right of citizenship: 

  

Those who deny freedom to others deserve it not for themselves. 
              ~Abraham Lincoln

There is nothing wrong with America that cannot be cured by what is right with America. 
               ~William J. Clinton
What is the essence of America?  Finding and maintaining that perfect, delicate balance

between freedom "to" and freedom "from." 
               ~ Marilyn vos Savant
He that would make his own liberty secure, must guard even his enemy from opposition; for if he violates this duty he establishes a precedent that will reach himself. 
               ~Thomas Paine
"Courage, then, my countrymen, our contest is not only whether we ourselves shall be free, but whether there shall be left to mankind an asylum on earth for civil and religious liberty."   

~Samuel Adams

“History teaches that grave threats to liberty often come in times of urgency, when constitutional rights seem too extravagant to endure.”
             ~Supreme Court Justice Thurgood Marshall

                                                  
You've got to be taught
To hate and fear,
You've got to be taught
From year to year,
It's got to be drummed
In your dear little ear
You've got to be carefully taught.

You've got to be taught to be afraid
Of people whose eyes are oddly made,
And people whose skin is a diff'rent shade,
You've got to be carefully taught.

You've got to be taught before it's too late,
Before you are six or seven or eight,
To hate all the people your relatives hate,
You've got to be carefully taught!
 ~ Rodgers' and Hammerstein's South Pacific

This land is your land, this land is my land

From California to the New York Island

From the Redwood Forest to the Gulf Stream waters

This land was made for you and me.

As I was walking that ribbon of highway

I saw above me that endless skyway

I saw below me that golden valley

This land was made for you and me.

I roamed and I rambled and I followed my footsteps

To the sparkling sands of her diamond deserts

While all around me a voice was sounding

This land was made for you and me.

When the sun came shining, and I was strolling

And the wheat fields waving and the dust clouds rolling

A voice was chanting, As the fog was lifting,

This land was made for you and me.

This land is your land, this land is my land

From California to the New York Island

From the Redwood Forest to the Gulf Stream waters

This land was made for you and me.

~ Woody Guthrie

      This is a great country even with its flaws, issues, and problems. We must learn from our own Founders that we are not free-floating and completely self-reliant in the world and/or only on our own terms. They did forge relationships with our former colonizer, after our Revolutionary War, that brought us to being staunch allies in this day and time. We have eventually made allies of many former enemy countries to further the qualities of life for ourselves and each other on this planet. Our freedom only goes as far as we rely on interdependence with all other human beings in their own countries on this earth. Of course, we must protect our own and our friends collaboratively from the terrors of rogue nations and outlaw organizations bound to do harm for desperate, faulty, and extreme ideologies. But we must be clear, in our sense and practice of Democracy, that Independence and Freedom carry the significant responsibilities and application of universal justice, mercy, and peace - we all reap what is sown by ourselves and in our names. We will always and only be as great as the alliances we form and the freedoms we protect together. 

Click here to hear/see the iconic Pete Seeger with Bruce Springsteen and others sing: This Land is Your Land

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Meditation Moments: Borrow or Lend?

                                                           ~ Corrie ten Boom* [1892-1982]

           I am slowly learning, as I wander through the experience of living, that when worry rears its anxious specters I must forcibly and deliberately push it away. It's so very easy for me to conjure mind maps of fear that fill my head, travel through the rest of me, and render me uselessly pacing or slumped in mindless paralysis. 
          There are many conditions in the world at large and in my own community that are cause for concern, even alarm, and call for immediate action or intervention. But worry enervates, creating problems rather than providing solutions. Worry is selfish and demanding of the attention of one's self and others to the exclusion of more important endeavors. When I get bogged down in my own head about my own stuff, I lose the momentum that should be put to better use. And while I'm getting better at it, I often need help to pull myself away from the edge of the sinkhole, and back into the present for the work at hand.
         SO, help me, Lord of Inner Strength. Grant me continuing improvement in my ability to set aside the borrowing of some potential trouble, and lend myself to the beauty in the moment, the ordinary of life, and the opportunities to be of service to others. And a little pocket of joy now and then will help keep me going forward.  amen.  


*Corrie ten Boom was the author of many books including her best known Hiding Places which told the harrowing story of her family helping to house Jews escaping from the Nazis during World War II. She and her family were subsequently imprisoned in Ravensbruck, a Nazi death camp where several of her family died. Her work for the mentally disabled before the war and after she was released from prison in setting up refuge centers and shelters for death camp survivors and even the jobless Dutch who collaborated with the Germans, earned her international recognition and accolades. She moved to California in 1977 where she died on her 91st birthday.
            


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Meditation Moments: About a foot wide

The sun is the width 

of a human foot.  

                                                  ~ Heraclitus* [c. 535–c. 475 BCE]

      Well, ok, then, maybe two human feet...and my first reaction is to laugh! I remember myself as a child lying on the grass blocking the sun with my foot and feeling powerful.

       And there you are, Sun, in all your resplendent presence pouring light upon us brightening, dazzling, blinding, warming, heating, wilting, frying us and then suddenly we're chilled by a passing cloud!  

          So much of life is a matter of perspective. Too much of a good thing followed by too much of a bad thing...and here I am trying to find balance, harmony, and just the right measure of objectivity. But when I get swept away in emotion, I can easily lose my perspective and feel overwhelmed. There have been moments when I was so lost in love I could hardly breathe, some moments when anger has sent my blood pressure nearly to explosion. And when the extremes of passion take over, the truth is lost. Help me, Lord of Sun, Moon, and Stars, to find the warming light in the darkness, the cooling shade in the heat, the balance between want and need, and, the wisdom to check the width of the sun every now and then.  amen. 

*Heraclitus was a pre-Socratic Greek philosopher born to an aristocratic family in Ephesus in what is now Turkey. He insisted that the "only constant is change" and most famously that "No man steps into the same river twice."  

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