[There are those activities that] we use...for a kind of
pleasure which can be called "fun." But it is not the creative kind
of fun often connected with play; it is, rather, a shallow, distracting, greedy
way of "having fun." And it is not by chance that it is that type of
fun which can easily be commercialized, for it is dependent on calculable
reactions, without passion, without risk, without love. Of all the dangers that
threaten our civilization, this is one of the most dangerous ones: the escape
from one’s emptiness through a "fun" which makes joy impossible.
~ Paul Tillich* 1886-1965
-What kinds of
things do you do "for fun" or relaxation or simple pleasure:
Photography, playing a
musical instrument, cooking, reading, bird watching,
dancing, video games, playing the slots, gardening, playing or watching
outdoor sports, watching television or movies or Facebook or other social media,
or games, on your phone in a restaurant at a table with others...
-When does fun turn
into idle play or idle play into an obsession or addiction, or to
try to always please others?
-When
is "entertainment" at the expense of or in exploitation of
others
(however well they are being paid)?
-Do your fun times
improve your life financially, enhance a relationship,
or your physical, and mental health?
Dear God of Free Time ~
What should I do when my time is my own ~ is there a right way or a wrong
way to do "fun"? Does everything I do in life have to be filled with
usefulness and meaning? Sometimes I just want to sit and veg-out in front
of the tv, sometimes I want to run on the beach, learn to paint, or sing in the
car. Sometimes I want to write the perfect sonnet or cook the most
sumptuous meal for friends. I don't want to be responsible for saving
civilization.
Well, then let
me think this through. For today, I'll give up some of the empty time of
mindless "entertainment." I'll take on some mindful relaxation
that will give me a positive outlook on life and then transfer some of that into energy to contribute something useful to at least local civilization if in a small way. I'll pray to keep idle play from
becoming idol play. I'll keep trying to remember that You are present in
every moment of my day and only through You can I experience the joy that this
life has to offer and then offer it in a variety of ways to others. amen.
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